mahle engine builder showdown

I was aspectator at the 2nd round qualifing rounds today and i have feelings i would like to express . i feel  that the PME team should have been disqualified. someone they must have known was in the audience and yelled to them to put the oil in the motor  if that was never said they would probably have tried to start the engine without oil and in turn would have lost the round. . as far as i know the competitors are not allowed help. after asking around i learned that it was a wife of one of the builders. i feel that the other team (RPM) should have won . i feel this is another case of nascar inside cheating . Mahle should reverse the decision . thanks for listening to my rant just feel the little guy always gets screwed.