What would you do to a car if it pushing on entry and lose in the middle, but good off?  We have tired everything tire pressure, stagger, driving style.  I'm just soo confused.  I think it might be because he drives in hard at the bottom and trys to drive the car, and not let it drift the rear end.  

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What is your front/rear weight ratio?  

Springs get you into the corner
Front sway bar gets you through the center
Stagger helps you get off the corner (assuming locked rear end)
We dont have enough info on your car to help. Need to know type of track, size, weight of car, tire, gear etc.
It could be as simple as toe-in settlings. DO you know if the lower control arms are bottoming out on the frame? The simple answer is the front is too stiff if it pushes going in. You need to find out why its too stiff.